芜湖火车站台拥挤死了个女孩。
想起有一年寒假在郑州转车， 在露天广场上呆了一晚， 进站的时候铁路警察用皮带维持次序， 检票的时候手里拿的是浑水摸鱼的站台票， 上车的时候很多人是从车窗进去的，上了车， 对面坐的是从江苏采茶回甘肃的老年妇女， 她面前有一瓶矿泉水或纯净水， 喝了一口说， “怎么和水一样？” 她的手， 满是黑色的裂纹。
每次看那么长队买火车票， 就觉得离家近真好， 出门远的人真可怜。有提议说要实名制。
每次看到家前面的公交车那么空，人们走上去那么从容闲定，和上海人挤地铁那样威猛焦虑的场面相比， 就觉得作个上海人， 实在是需要一些战斗力的。
ps.今天下雪了，接在手上， 很大的一朵朵。祝愿瑞雪兆丰年
2008年1月22日星期二
2008年1月21日星期一
2008年1月19日星期六
2008年1月15日星期二
2008年1月13日星期日
肖申克的救赎
The Shawshank Redemption
本来觉得自己已经有能力鉴别故事的真伪， 但是看完这本书，一开始 还是有点怀疑这是这本书作者真实的经历， 后来看到是斯蒂芬 金 (Stephen King) 写的， 因为知道他也写过其他的书， 很是佩服他这样的作家， 一定花了很多工夫去采访和体验， 不象现在有些流行小说， 完全没有生活基础。
我是先看的电影， 电影很好看， 不过我觉得书更好看， 因为有些东西画面说不出来， 电影里加了一段ANDY 放歌剧的， 加得不错； 电影还把ANDY的钱归于来自监狱长， 可能是为了制造高潮和戏剧性吧。
那段写ANDY失去镇定， 觉得很到位。
本来觉得自己已经有能力鉴别故事的真伪， 但是看完这本书，一开始 还是有点怀疑这是这本书作者真实的经历， 后来看到是斯蒂芬 金 (Stephen King) 写的， 因为知道他也写过其他的书， 很是佩服他这样的作家， 一定花了很多工夫去采访和体验， 不象现在有些流行小说， 完全没有生活基础。
我是先看的电影， 电影很好看， 不过我觉得书更好看， 因为有些东西画面说不出来， 电影里加了一段ANDY 放歌剧的， 加得不错； 电影还把ANDY的钱归于来自监狱长， 可能是为了制造高潮和戏剧性吧。
那段写ANDY失去镇定， 觉得很到位。
卖身的女大学生
学费是很贵啊， 生活费也不菲， 还有女人都喜欢漂亮衣服和亮晶晶的首饰啊， 可是也没必要把自己给卖了。心疼父母， 可以先借贷啊， 借贷不成先休学赚钱啊。
想起在酒店工作的 JJ 讲笑话说起女大学生从XX过来， 要求坐高级轿车。人都卖了， 还讲什么车呀
想起知道我来自哪里后， 那个卖衣服的老板娘马上说你们那里酒店的小姐是不是哪里过来的，很有名的
想起 XX 说被客户招待， 碰到的卖身小姐是在学校食堂碰到过的学生
这样读了大学， 又有什么意思呢？
感慨
想起在酒店工作的 JJ 讲笑话说起女大学生从XX过来， 要求坐高级轿车。人都卖了， 还讲什么车呀
想起知道我来自哪里后， 那个卖衣服的老板娘马上说你们那里酒店的小姐是不是哪里过来的，很有名的
想起 XX 说被客户招待， 碰到的卖身小姐是在学校食堂碰到过的学生
这样读了大学， 又有什么意思呢？
感慨
2008年1月11日星期五
涂鸦文化
1/2个月以前记录的。
近来为门口和楼梯里的涂鸦文化烦恼， 搞得象港片里追债的， 各路人等出马做各色广告， 不仅推销产品， 服务， 还有推销人的， 还有人写下心情故事， 当然不是看了让人心情舒畅的那种。
其中有2家保洁公司， 互相PK， 两家都用的红的印章拓电话号码， 8个数字排下来也有一个多手掌长。大概后一家是仿效前一家的， 后来其中一类电话号码的最后一个数字就被墨汁涂掉了， 又后来， 其中一类的电话号码被白漆还是石灰刷白了。
近来为门口和楼梯里的涂鸦文化烦恼， 搞得象港片里追债的， 各路人等出马做各色广告， 不仅推销产品， 服务， 还有推销人的， 还有人写下心情故事， 当然不是看了让人心情舒畅的那种。
其中有2家保洁公司， 互相PK， 两家都用的红的印章拓电话号码， 8个数字排下来也有一个多手掌长。大概后一家是仿效前一家的， 后来其中一类电话号码的最后一个数字就被墨汁涂掉了， 又后来， 其中一类的电话号码被白漆还是石灰刷白了。
总是慢一拍
经W同学的介绍， 去参观体验了一下金宝贝早教中心， 对早教很感兴趣。 开始的时候也认同只要找些能说英语的人来， 摆摆噱头就可以了， 后来对上海和宁波的早教和幼育机构作了一下调查， 发现两地早已经有各类早教机构了， 宁波的月嫂和外婆培训也很有特色。 看起来简单， 觉得要作好， 事情不是那么简单的。 正所谓厚机薄发， 人家用英语说话只是一个表达方式而已。
对此有兴趣， 是因为， 喜欢孩子， 喜欢和孩子玩， 喜欢教育， 喜欢玩具， 喜欢小孩子看问题的角度。
一个方向
对此有兴趣， 是因为， 喜欢孩子， 喜欢和孩子玩， 喜欢教育， 喜欢玩具， 喜欢小孩子看问题的角度。
一个方向
2008年1月9日星期三
新年的愿望
To have someone join my family.
as always, I'm not a good talker in this area...so here it goes.
well, here are some words about myself and my thoughts of family and some explanation of the ideal...
1. everyone has his own life style and opinion to the family, I can understand and respect most of them. life is so short and already not easy, as for me, my preferred style is that I can be myself, no cheating, no pretending, no stretching, this is also my wish to others in my family.
here is what I'm like:
a) (it'll be better to draw a comic of this to make the physical spec description more fun than product-alike)
I'm not young, neither am I very old.
I'm not fat, neither am I so skinny as looked.
I'm a little tall, yet not tall enough to be a professional model.
I'm single, live alone, no history of marriage...
I'm not pretty, maybe many years ago some words made me feel so, now I did not think so
b) I'm healthy with healthy preferrence and fondness:
clothes
- prefer normal, simple, comfortable and preserved ones. no band preferrence.
- prefer trousers than skirts. at the most only once a month with skirts on. Because it's not convenient or safe.
food:
- like all of the normal foods. dislike abnormal foods.
- prefer seafood than pork. I love fishes, shells, crabs.
- prefer rice than noodle.
- prefer meals than snacks
- prefer homemade than restaurant provided
- fresh fruit.
living
- prefer mate than place.
outing
- hiking, travelling, walking, bike riding
others ( just fond of , not good at)
- sports
- book, music, opera, movie, handwrting, painting
fond of science fiction, real life story. fond of classical music, country songs with slow rhythm.
- trees, and flowers, planting
- always glad to know and learn new things,
including electric, metal or wood model creating, furniture creating
- love children. can only accept pets like fish, bird which will not move in the room by themself, no cats, no dogs.
- I like good looking outside, but like more inside
c) I'm independent, can make living on myself, not rich though. here is the scene I imagined to interpret my point.
if there's only two options for me when I did not have one cent:
1) go to carry the heavy packages as a physical labor to get the little money cent by cent.
2) get a big number of money from a man out of the family just because I'm a woman, offered or gotten by begging.
my choice would be definitely #1, option #2 is even an insultation.
d) I'm kind-hearted, which is inherited from my parents.
e) I'm responsible and reliable.
f) my weakness
- I'm timid, which is caused by I'm too thoughtful. It's not caused by fear of the dark, or fear of the power, so I'm not threatenable.
- EQ ---> 0
- other.....
2. regarding the family, I'm from a very traditional family and have no thoughts to change the meaning of the family. Therefore, family need to be a place: comfortable, natural, warm, easy, safe, happy, can be depended on, can provide strength, be thought of with smile-----this is my expectation, also I will do from my side with all effort to make this true.
3. he
1) he is natural. since I can understand accept fault, but can't accept fake,
2) he can be respected by me. since from my opinion respect is an important base of the close relationship.
a)he is kind-hearted.
b)he loves or likes something other than the money, no needs to be strong, just the capability to love or like the life itself, not focus all on the work. otherwise it would be too boring. Living need money but we did not live all on money, It's better he has a healthy life style or preferrence.
Following fondness are excluded:
- power, since the way is endless and no fun.
- gamble
- others harmful to the health
c) he can understand and respect others.
3) he needs to be faithful. no doubt I will be, and I can't accept the third party of the marriage absolutly, it will directly result to the divorce, which will split more than half capital. so if he think he is hesitate in this side, don't waste time, treasure his treasure.
4) his physical spec...
tall and strong is ideal, however, it is not very criticle.
5) his age
elder, but not too old.
6) his personal status.
single, no marriage history.
7) he is responsible. he will not escape away or withdraw when his response is need.
8) others:
a) It's better he is gentle and polite, but not wordy.
b) he has a sense of humor. This make the expression and life easier.
d) It's bettter he is always happy, at least he is not always blue.
e) he is not necessary to be rich or powerful.
as always, I'm not a good talker in this area...so here it goes.
well, here are some words about myself and my thoughts of family and some explanation of the ideal...
1. everyone has his own life style and opinion to the family, I can understand and respect most of them. life is so short and already not easy, as for me, my preferred style is that I can be myself, no cheating, no pretending, no stretching, this is also my wish to others in my family.
here is what I'm like:
a) (it'll be better to draw a comic of this to make the physical spec description more fun than product-alike)
I'm not young, neither am I very old.
I'm not fat, neither am I so skinny as looked.
I'm a little tall, yet not tall enough to be a professional model.
I'm single, live alone, no history of marriage...
I'm not pretty, maybe many years ago some words made me feel so, now I did not think so
b) I'm healthy with healthy preferrence and fondness:
clothes
- prefer normal, simple, comfortable and preserved ones. no band preferrence.
- prefer trousers than skirts. at the most only once a month with skirts on. Because it's not convenient or safe.
food:
- like all of the normal foods. dislike abnormal foods.
- prefer seafood than pork. I love fishes, shells, crabs.
- prefer rice than noodle.
- prefer meals than snacks
- prefer homemade than restaurant provided
- fresh fruit.
living
- prefer mate than place.
outing
- hiking, travelling, walking, bike riding
others ( just fond of , not good at)
- sports
- book, music, opera, movie, handwrting, painting
fond of science fiction, real life story. fond of classical music, country songs with slow rhythm.
- trees, and flowers, planting
- always glad to know and learn new things,
including electric, metal or wood model creating, furniture creating
- love children. can only accept pets like fish, bird which will not move in the room by themself, no cats, no dogs.
- I like good looking outside, but like more inside
c) I'm independent, can make living on myself, not rich though. here is the scene I imagined to interpret my point.
if there's only two options for me when I did not have one cent:
1) go to carry the heavy packages as a physical labor to get the little money cent by cent.
2) get a big number of money from a man out of the family just because I'm a woman, offered or gotten by begging.
my choice would be definitely #1, option #2 is even an insultation.
d) I'm kind-hearted, which is inherited from my parents.
e) I'm responsible and reliable.
f) my weakness
- I'm timid, which is caused by I'm too thoughtful. It's not caused by fear of the dark, or fear of the power, so I'm not threatenable.
- EQ ---> 0
- other.....
2. regarding the family, I'm from a very traditional family and have no thoughts to change the meaning of the family. Therefore, family need to be a place: comfortable, natural, warm, easy, safe, happy, can be depended on, can provide strength, be thought of with smile-----this is my expectation, also I will do from my side with all effort to make this true.
3. he
1) he is natural. since I can understand accept fault, but can't accept fake,
2) he can be respected by me. since from my opinion respect is an important base of the close relationship.
a)he is kind-hearted.
b)he loves or likes something other than the money, no needs to be strong, just the capability to love or like the life itself, not focus all on the work. otherwise it would be too boring. Living need money but we did not live all on money, It's better he has a healthy life style or preferrence.
Following fondness are excluded:
- power, since the way is endless and no fun.
- gamble
- others harmful to the health
c) he can understand and respect others.
3) he needs to be faithful. no doubt I will be, and I can't accept the third party of the marriage absolutly, it will directly result to the divorce, which will split more than half capital. so if he think he is hesitate in this side, don't waste time, treasure his treasure.
4) his physical spec...
tall and strong is ideal, however, it is not very criticle.
5) his age
elder, but not too old.
6) his personal status.
single, no marriage history.
7) he is responsible. he will not escape away or withdraw when his response is need.
8) others:
a) It's better he is gentle and polite, but not wordy.
b) he has a sense of humor. This make the expression and life easier.
d) It's bettter he is always happy, at least he is not always blue.
e) he is not necessary to be rich or powerful.
